My 80 years old grandma suffers from chronic back ache – I want to buy her a massager?

 

Question about massagers for back ache..

 I want to buy grandma something nice to show her that I am thinking about her. She suffers from back ache lately. She really suffers, and cannot stand up for more than a few minutes or even stay in bed. Every position hurts her.

I thought that maybe a massager would work or something else for her back. Any ideas to what I can give her?

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5 Comments so far

  1. Sweetness on July 11th, 2009

    Well, seeing you said she suffers from back ache "lately" and there has been no
    "long term or continuing" problem with this….
    which is was "chronic" actually means, a massager would be no problem.

    However, a doctor’s visit, if she hasn’t already
    gone to one, would be a good idea to make
    sure it’s not something internal that might
    be causing her back pain. It may just be
    a muscle sprain which a massager would be just fine for as "Cookie" suggested and, as she
    said not for long periods of time and under
    supervision.
    I don’t see how "Idiot" determined it was
    "chronic" by your question.

    However, a doctor’s visit would be wise.
    Good luck, Sweetie.

  2. Just Us on July 11th, 2009

    Can you even read sweetness? CHRONIC back ache. Sheesh! Do not get her a massager.

    I just read COOKIE’s answer. A massager is not a "grand" idea. That will probably make her pain WAY worse. You should be banned from YA for giving such uninformed advice.

  3. Flaming Idiot on July 11th, 2009

    COOKIE is way wrong on this. A massager is the worse thing in the world you can give somebody with chronic back pain. MASSAGERS ARE FOR MUSCLES! Your grandmother is probably dealing with spinal/joint fatigue. Talk to her doctor and see what he thinks…

    THUMBS DOWN TO YOU COOKIE. BAD, BAD ADVICE!

    THUMBS DOWN TO YOU TOO SWEETNESS. ARE YOU READING THE SAME QUESTION AS THE REST OF US? IT SAYS RIGHT THERE "GRANDMA SUFFERS FROM CHRONIC BACK ACHE." NOTE THE WORD "CHRONIC!"

  4. the_only_solorose on July 11th, 2009

    at her age a massager will likely do more harm than good, and she probably won’t use it anyway.
    I would buy her three or four trips to an accupuncture clinic.

  5. COOKIE on July 11th, 2009

    Hi Ladybug…
    That’s sounds like a sweet idea
    for grandma.

    My 82 year old Mom was having
    problems a while ago.

    A few things we checked on were…

    her shoes. A lot of body aches and
    pains start from the feet. Does she
    need arches? Are her shoes worn
    out on one side where it’s affecting
    her spine and causing pain?
    Does she need new shoes?
    Is she always wearing slippers
    with no arch support?

    her chair. My Mom had this really
    squooshy comfortable chair that
    she would always sit it. But, it
    was curving her spine. It was
    also hard for her to get out of
    once she sat down. So she
    would sit in it for long periods
    of time. My sister brought over
    a firmer chair. A wing chair.
    It’s easier for her to get out of
    which helps her walk around
    more for needed excercise.
    It also keeps her spine straighter.

    her bed. I know Grandma probably
    loves her nice cuddly bed.
    But, how old is it?
    Is it soft and squooshy to
    where it curves her spine when
    she sleeps? Does she need
    a new firmer mattress?

    I think it’s absolutely fabulous
    that you want to help Grandma.
    Most kids forget about them…
    until they need something.
    You sound adorable like my
    daughter. She just loves her
    grandparents and goes over
    once a week to clean and
    help them.

    We changed all the above for
    my Mom, and she still has
    her aches and pains, but she
    has not been complaining
    as much about her back as
    she was.

    If it’s impossible to help with
    the above items because of
    the money, maybe other family
    members can pitch in and help
    purchase them. The chair
    we got her was used by my sister
    …but it was in good condition and
    worked.

    Otherwise…the massager is a
    grand idea seeing it’s
    not "chronic" back pain and
    it just started lately as you said.
    She probably won’t
    use it much so, maybe on days
    when you visit, you can set it up
    for her and let her sit on it for
    20-30 minutes. She shouldn’t
    sit on it constantly.

    Also, does she have a walker?
    "Falling down" injuries are the
    number one cause of hospitalization
    of seniors. Maybe a walker would
    be nice. To help her get in and out
    of bed so she won’t fall. She may
    say she doesn’t need one…it’s
    a pride thing, but maybe if you
    just brought one over, she would
    end up using it. I believe her
    insurance would cover that if
    her doctor writes a prescription for
    it.

    Good Luck, God Bless and
    thanks for loving your
    Grandma!!



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